Story 002 / कथा 00२

002 Prashant influences on Rahul's behavior

Story 002, part 1:

Rahul, Ranu and their parents

There was a family in one of the village. The family consisted of a father, a mother and their two children: Rahul and Ranu. Rahul was 10 years old and his little sister Ranu was 7 years old. The parents were unable to satisfy both themselves and their children. Mother worked as a housekeeper at the neighbor's house. She also helped one of the grandmothers who was very old, because the grandmother was unable to take care of herself.

Both children, Rahul and Ranu, were very good and respect their parents. Little Ranu was so helpful, helping her parents with every job.

Rahul was also helpful, helping his little sister with her homework. Rahul and Ranu meditated and prayed daily and were therefore calm and confident. Father worked in a shop as an assistant to the store owner. Both children studied at school about a 10-minute walk from their home. Both children were good in  study. The teachers also praise their good performance at school. One day father had gone for the work, the children were ready for the school at that moment mother became sick. She had the terrible headache and could not take the children to the school. Rahul was worried because mother was unable to take them to the school and the sister was small. Ranu was small but very clever and brave. She said: "Don't worry, first of all we have to take care of our mother and then we think about the school." She ran to the neighbor and said that mother is sick. The neighbor came and helped them and took care of the mother. After sometimes the mother got a little relief and thanked to the neighbor. The neighbor told that:-''  Thank to your daughter that she called me and then came to know about you." 

Story 002, part 2:
The negative influence of Prashant on Rahul

The neighbor were very helpful, and she take the children to the school. 
They reached late at school.  The teacher asked why they were late. They explained about the mother's illness. Rahul was much worried about mother and all day he was sad in the class. When the teacher saw it, the teacher felt pity on him and said: "Don't worry God is with you." When the class is over, they reached home quickly and saw the mother was fine and preparing Tiffin.
Rahul slowly behaving rudely with the parents because he learnt from his friend Prashant. Rahul started to asked money with the parents to buy unnecessary things. If the parents deny he quarrel  with them. The parents became worried because of his behavior and went to the school and talked with the teacher about his behavior. The teacher assured them that they will find out why Rahul has this behavior. The teacher found out it was because of the influence of Prashant who was the  best friend of Rahul. Then the teacher met with the  parent's of  Prashant. The parents of Prashant said that we had given him what he wanted and fulfilled all the desire what he wanted. So, now a days we don't have any work to do, we all are in the home. He wants what he was getting before.  

Story 002, part 3:
The positive influence of Prashant on Rahul.

The next day in the school the teacher asked to Prashant what do you want with your parents. Then Prashant said that :- '' My parents were giving everything to me what I wanted but now a days they deny to give anything.'' Then the teacher told carefully :- '' Is your parents go to any work now a days ?'' Prashant replied:- '' No, teacher, now a days they are in the home every time.'' The teacher said:-'' Look, when your parents were in the work, they earn the money, now a days they are in the home, so they have no work. Without work who will give the money to them.'' Prashant understood that he is doing wrong and misbehaving with the parents. Prashant felt guilty and said to the teacher now he understood and says sorry to the parents after back to the home. When Prashant  went back to the home, he looked at the parents then he said sorry and felt gratitude to them. Rahul who learnt the wrong behavior from Prashant said: " My best friend Prashant, i ask often money to my parents but only sometime they give little. But your parents give you everything what you ask"
Then Prashant felt guilty, because of him Rahul learnt  these bad habit and said: " You were a very good boy, but because of me you became little bad, my best friend. I was wrong to ask my parents always money, but now I understood my fault. You also have to change"   
Rahul said: "Why I have to change, you taught  me to ask to parents always money". 
Prashant explained Rahul that the rude behavior unknowingly he had, but now he understood that it was wrong, and he changed himsef. After listening carefully to his best friend, now  Rahul also understood his mistake. When Rahul was back at home, he said to his sister Ranu who was always taking care of the parents: "My dear sister why you never tell me about my bad behavior". Sister Ranu said: ''You are elder than me, I tried to say to you about it but you became angry with me and never listen to me.'' Rahul said: -'' Forgive me my sister I didn't listen to you, if we listen to our parents they would not be worry and sad with us". Then Rahul started to help to the parents and helped his sister Ranu for her homework. 
Then parents of Rahul and Ranu said:- '' Now we feel proud with our children because now our children became good." At the mean time the neighbor came to  Rahul and Ranu's home to see the mother. When she saw Rahul change she also became very happy.

Questions: What can we learn from this story?

01: What have you learned from this story?

02: We should behave politely and feel gratitude with the parents.

03: Bad Behavior can change, as it happen by Prashant and also by Rahul in these story

04: Sometime we can learn also from a younger person than you. As Rahul learn from his young sister Ranu.

05: Don't panic, stay calm and have faith in God and yourself, as Ranu did, by asking the neighbors for help

कथा:- ००२ राहुलको बानी व्यवहारमा प्रशान्तको असर पर्‍यो

कथा - ००२     भाग:- १

राहुल, रानु र उनिहरुका आमा-बुवाहरु

कुनै एउटा गाउँमा एउटा परिवार थिए । त्यो परिवारमा आमा, बुवा र उनिहरुका दुईजना केटाकेटिहरु थिए राहुल र रानु । राहुल दस वर्षको र उसकी सानी बहिनी सात वर्षकी थिईन । ति दुई आमा-बुवाहरु आफुहरु र साथै आफ्ना दुई बच्चाहरुलाई संतुष्ट राख्न असमर्थ थिए । आमा छिमेकिको घरमा घरको कामगर्न जानुहुन्थ्यो । उनी एकजना हजुरआमालाईपनी सहायता गर्नुहुन्थ्यो जो सार्है बुढो हुनुहुन्थ्यो र आफ्नो हेरचाहपनी आँफैले गर्न सक्नुहुन्नथ्यो ।

दुबै राहुल र रानु धेरै असल थिए र आफ्ना आमा-बुआलाई आदर तथा सम्मान गर्थे । सानी रानु धेरै सहयोगी थिईन र आफ्ना आमा-बुवाहरुलाई प्रत्येक कामहरुमा सहायता गर्थिन ।

राहुल पनि सहयोगी थिए, उनी आफ्नी सानी बहिनिलाई गृहकार्यगर्नमा सहायता गर्थे । राहुल र रानु सधैं ध्यान तथा प्रार्थना गर्दथे त्यसैले उनिहरु शान्त तथा विश्वस्त( निसंकोच ) थिए । बुवा एउटा पसलमा पसलको मालिकको सहयोगिको रुपमा काम गर्थे । दुबै केटाकेटिहरु आफ्नो घरभन्दा १० मिनेटको दुरीमा भएको एक विद्धालयमा पढथे । दुबै केटाकेटिहरु पढाईमा राम्रो थिए । विद्धालयमापनी गुरु तथा गुरुआमाहरुले उनिहरुको पढाईको प्रशंसा गर्नुहुन्थ्यो । एकदिन बुवा काममा जानुभएको थियो केटाकेटिहरु विद्धालय जान तयार भईरहेका थिए, त्यहीबेला आमा बिरामी हुनुभयो । आमालाई भयानक (एकदमै धेरैनै) टाउको दुख्यो र केटाकेटिहरुलाई विद्धालय लैजान सक्नुभएन । राहुल बहीनिपनी सानै छ र आमाले विद्धालय लैजान सक्नुभएनभनेर चिन्तित थिए । रानु सानी थिईन तर धेरै चलाख र बहादुर थिईन । उनले भनिन:-'' चिन्ता नगर्नुस् , पहिला हामीले हाम्रो आमाको हेरविचार गर्नुपर्छ अनी त्यसपछी विद्धालयको बारेमा सोचौंला ।'' उनी ( रानु) दौडेर छिमेकिको घरमा गईन र आमा बिरामी हुनुहुन्छ भनेर भनिन । ति छिमेकी आएर उनिहरुलाई मद्द्त गर्नुभयो र आमाकोपनी हेरविचार गर्नुभयो । केहीबेरपछी आमाले आराम महशुस गर्नुभयो र छिमेकिलाई धन्यवाद दिनुभयो । ति छिमेकिले भन्नुभयो:-'' तपाईंंको छोरीलाई धन्यवाद दिनुहोस्, किनकी उनी मलाई बोलाउन आईन अनिमात्र हामीलाई तपाईंको बारेमा थाहाभयो ।

कथा ००२   भाग:- २

प्रशान्तको नकारात्मक प्रभाव राहुलमा पर्‍यो ।

ति छिमेकिहरु धेरै सहयोगी थिए, उनले केटाकेटिहरुलाई विद्धालय लिएर गए । तिनिहरु विद्धालयमा ढिला पुगेका थिए । शिक्षकले तिमीहरु किन ढिला विद्धालय आएको भनेर सोध्नुभयो । उनिहरुले आमाको बिमारिको बारेमा सबै विस्तारमा भने । राहुल आमाको बारेमा धेरै चिन्तित थिए र दिनभरी कक्षामा दु:खी भएर बसे । जब शिक्षकले उनलाई दु:खी देख्नुभयो वहाँँलाई दयालागेर भन्नुभयो :-'' चिन्ता नगर भगवान तिम्रो साथमा हुनुहुन्छ ।'' जब विद्धालय बिदाभयो उनिहरु छिट्टोगरेर घर गए, घरमा पुगेर हेर्दा त आमा ठीक हुनुहुन्थ्यो र उनिहरुकोलागी खाजा बनाईरहनु भएकोथियो । राहुल विस्तारै आफ्ना आमा-बुवाहरुसँग असभ्य व्यवहार गर्न  थाले किनकी उनले त्यो बानी आफ्नो साथी प्रशान्तबाट सिकेका थिए । राहुल आफ्ना आमा-बुवाहरुसंग अनावश्यक चिजहरु किन्नकोलागी पैसा माग्न शुरुगरेका थिए । यदी आमा-बुवाहरुले पैसा दिनलाई ईन्कार गर्नुभयो भने (दिनुभएनभने) उनी आमा-बुवाहरुसँग झगडा गर्दथे । ति आमा-बुवाहरु राहुलको बानी व्यवहार देखेर धेरै चिन्तित हुनुभयो र विद्धालयमा शिक्षकहरुसँग राहुलको व्यवहारको बारेमा कुरागर्न जानुभयो । शिक्षकहरुले वहाँँहरुलाई राहुलको व्यवहार किन यस्तो भएछ भनेर हामी पत्ता लगाउछौँ भनेर बाचा गरे । शिक्षकहरुले राहुलको मिल्नेसाथी प्रशान्तको कारणलेगर्दा उनले यस्तो व्यवहार देखाईरहेका छन भन्ने पत्ता लगाए। त्यसपछी शिक्षकहरु प्रशान्तको आमा-बुवाहरुलाई भेट्न जानुभयो । प्रशान्तको आमा-बुवाहरुले उसले जे चाहन्थ्यो त्यै दिएर उसको ईच्छाहरु पुरागरेका थियौँ भन्नुभयो । अहिले हाम्रो कामपनी छैन, हामी सबैजना घरमानै छौँ । प्रशान्त अहिलेपनी पहिले पाएको जस्तै सबै कुराहरु चाहन्छ ।

कथा:- ००२     भाग:- ०३

प्रशान्तको सकारात्मक प्रभाव राहुलमा पर्‍यो ।

अर्कोदिन विद्धालयमा शिक्षकहरुले प्रशान्तलाई तिमी आफ्नो आमा-बुवाहरुसँग के चाहन्छौ भनेर सोध्नुभयो । त्यसपछी प्रशान्तले भने:-'' मेरो आमा-बुवाहरुले मैले जे चाह्यो त्यै सबैचिजहरु दिनिहुन्थ्यो तर अहिले केही दिनलाईपनी ईन्कार गर्नुहुन्छ ( अहिले छैन भन्नु, दिन नखोज्नु )।'' त्यसपछी शिक्षकहरुले सवधानिपुर्वक भन्नुभयो:-'' के तिम्रो आमा-बुवाहरु आजकाल कामगर्न जानुहुन्छ ?'' प्रशान्तले उत्तर दिए:-'' छैन गुरु, आजकाल त जतिबेलापनी घरमै बस्नुहुन्छ ।'' शिक्षकले भन्नुभयो:-'' हेर, जब तिम्रो आमा-बुवाहरु कामगर्न जानुहुन्थ्यो, वहाँँहरुले पैसा कमाउनुहुन्थ्यो । आजकाल घरमा हुनुहुन्छ, किनकी वहाँँहरुको काम छैन। काम नागरिकन वहाँँहरुलाई पैसा कसले दिन्छ त ।'' प्रशान्तले मैले गल्ती गरिरहेको रहेछु र मैले आमा-बुवाहरुलाई नराम्रो व्यवहार गरिरहेको रहेछु भनेर बल्ल बुझे । प्रशान्तले आफुलाई दोषी ठाने र शिक्षकलाई अब मैले बुझेँ अब घर गएपछी म आमा-बुवाहरुसँग माफि माग्नेछु भने । जब प्रशान्त घरमा पुगे, उनले आमा-बुवाहरुलाई हेरे र भने मलाई माफ गरिदिनुहोस् अनी वहाँँहरुप्रती धयवाद तथा कृतज्ञ भए । राहुल जो गलत व्यवहार प्रशान्तबाट सिकेका थिए उनले भने:-'' मेरो प्यारो असल साथी प्रशान्त, म प्राय: मेरो आमा-बुवाहरुसँग पैसा माग्छु तर वहाँँहरुले कहिकाहिँमात्र थोरै पैसा दिनुहुन्छ । तर तिम्रो आमा-बुवाहरुले तिमीले भन्ने बितिक्कै सबै चिजहरु दिनुहुन्छ ।''

त्यसपछी प्रशान्तले आफु दोषी महशुस गरे किनकी उनको कारणले राहुलले त्यो खराब (नराम्रो) बानी सिकेको थियो, प्रशान्तले भने:-'' मेरो प्यारो साथी, तिमी असल केटा थियौ, तर मेरो कारणले अलिकती बिग्रियौ । मैले मेरो आमा-बुवाहरुसंग सधैंँ पैसा मागेर गल्ती गरिको थिएं, अहिले मेरो गल्ती बुझिसकेको छु । अब तिमीपनी बदलिनु (सुध्रिनु) पर्दछ ।''

राहुलले भने:-'' म किन सुध्रिनु (बदलिनु)पर्छ, तिमीलेनै मलाई आमा-बुवाहरुसँग सधैंँ पैसा माग्नुपर्छ सिकाएको हैन ?'' प्रशान्तले सबै कुराहरु विस्तारमा भने, त्यस्तो असभ्य व्यवहार नजानेर मैले गरेको थिएँ, तर अहिले त्यो गलत रहेछ भनेर बुझें अनी मैलेपनी आफ्नो व्यवहारमा परिवर्तन ल्याएँ । राहुलली पनि आफ्नो मिल्नेसाथी प्रशान्तको कुरा ध्यानपुर्वक सुनेपछी उसलेपनी आफो गल्ती स्विकारे । जब राहुल आफ्नो घर फर्के उनले आफ्नो बहिनी रानुलाई भने, जो सधैंँ आमा-बुवालाई सहायता गर्थिन:-'' तिमीले मलाई मेरो खराब व्यवहारको बारेमा कहिल्यै भनिनौ ।'' बहिनी रानुले भनिन:-'' तपाईं म भन्दा ठुलो (जेठो) हुनुहुन्छ, मैले त्यसको बारेमा भन्न कोशीस गरेको थिएँ तर तपाईं रिसाएर मैले भनेको कहिल्यै सुन्नुभएन ।'' राहुलले भने:-'' मलाई माफ गरिदेउ मेरो बहिनी मैले तिमीले भनेको सुनिन । यदी हामीले आफो आमा-बुवाहरुले भनेको सुनेकोभए वहाँँहरु कहिल्यैपनी हामीहरुकोबारेमा चिन्तित त दु:खी हुनुहुने थिएन ।'' त्यसपछी राहुलले आमा-बुवाहरुलाई सहायता गर्न र आफ्नो बहिनी रानुलाई गृहकार्य गर्नमा सहायता गर्न थाले ।

त्यसपछी राहुल र रानुको आमा-बुवाले भन्नुभयो:-'' अब हामी हाम्रा छोराछोरिहरुसँग गर्व गर्छौँ किनकी अब हाम्रा छोराछोरिहरु असल (ज्ञानी ) भए ।''  त्यहिबेला ति छिमेकी राहुल र रानुको आमालाई भेट्न आउनु भयो । जब वहाँँले पनि राहुलको बानीमा सुधार आएको देख्नुभयो वहाँपनी खुशी हुनुभयो ।

प्रश्नहरु : हामी यस कथाबाट के सिक्न सक्छौं ?

०१:- यस कथाबाट के शिक्षा पायौ?

०२:- हामीले नम्र स्वभावले व्यवहार गर्नुपर्छ र आमा-बुवाहरुप्रती कृतज्ञ हुनुपर्दछ ।

०३:- खराब बानीमा सुधार ल्याउन सकिन्छ, जस्तो यस कथामा राहुल र प्रशान्तको बानिमा सुधार भएको थियो ।

०४:- कहिलेकाहीँ हामी आफुभन्दा साना बाटपनी सिक्नसक्छौँ । जस्तो कि राहुलले आफी बहीनी रानुबाट सिकेका थिए ।

०५:- केही भएमा नाअत्तिनु, शान्त रहनु र भगवानमा तथा आफुमा विश्वास राख्नु जस्तो कि रानुले छिमेकिलाई सहायतकोलागी गरिन ।

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